First dates are interviews. In essence, she�s checked out your resume, thinks you have potential, and is willing to give you a shot. The things you say, and the things you do are going to be carefully scrutinized between her and her advisors. Her advisors are, of course, her best buddies. You need to appear to be cool, calm, and collected. You also need to stay away from these eight terrible topics of conversation for a first date if you want to have a chance at follow up dates.