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The 2014 year is approaching its end and so, it is time for office end-of-year parties. Whereas the office will serve good food and all types of bdrinks, be warned that it is not the time to let loose and make a total fool of yourself with your bosses and co-workers looking on. So here are a few do's and don'ts to help you through the office party without any issues. Dress It is a party, yes, but remember it is an office party. Stay away from clothes that will make you pass off as a stripper or a queen dancer. If it is too high, too low, or too tight; keep it for your house party or some themed party in town. Do ask if there's a dress code, if not, casual smart, dinner suit or simple evening gown will do the trick. Dancing The mood is high, the DJ is playing some hot jams and you are in the mood to dance, don't start dancing before the dance floor is declared open. And when it is time to dance, "twerking� and "bendover" might be in fashion but don't attempt it. Dance with just enough flare to inspire a good-natured and relaxed dance with other coworkers. Mingle Don't use the party as an opportunity for one-on-one time with your boss to discuss the latest evaluation in your department. Furthermore, don't get too excited and start talking about salary increments and bonuses. The boss doesn't want to talk business at a party Make an effort to take a few minutes to greet people from other departments. Remember that sometimes the people who matter most are the administrative team members who support your success. Conversations Don't monopolise conversations; you are not the most important person at the party. Most importantly don't talk about yourself or your accomplishments all night. Show interest in others. It is easy to get caught up in office gossip and with alcohol in the mix; it is possible that the party or the day in office might not end well. It's best to stay away from gossip. Drinking By far, this is the most important on the do's and don'ts list of office Christmas parties. Don't drink too much. Most people forget that they are still employed by the company and behave like they would at a free beer, free food event and decide to let their hair loose. Know your limit and stick to it, even if the boss is getting absolutely drunk, it does not mean that it's acceptable for you to do that yourself. Attend and stay Don't overlook the invitation to an office party; not attending could hurt your reputation. And when you attend, it is important to stay for a reasonable amount of time, especially if there is a sit-down dinner. Unless there's an emergency to attend to, leaving early may look anti-social or unappreciative. But don't overstay your welcome by partying until the wee hours. Keep to time You don't want to enter the venue when the guest of honour or the boss is giving a speech. You will look out of place and probably your boss will remember you for late coming and this will give a negative impression about your attitude towards work. No un-invited guests We know you're a celebrity in town and have so many friends who want to attend your office party. But spare your friends the embarrassment of being bounced. Unless the invitation card allows you to come with a friend or friends, don't invite them. You can organise your own Christmas party at home and invite as many people as you want. Gifts Don't bring gifts for the boss, coworkers or any other crazy stuff you might do at a personal holiday party. If you must, gifts to consider can include a coffee mug, a music CD of Christmas carols, candle holders, or a travel bag. These gifts are neutral and won't raise eyebrows. Don't pack food home Some people have a sweet tooth for cake and food. Yes, it's a merry making event; but don't pack food in your bag to carry home after the party or bottles of wine. It's unprofessional and makes you pass off as someone who can carry sugar or coffee out of office when no one is looking. Food So back to food, we understand that three course meals do not present themselves to you everyday. However, this is no excuse to eat like there will be a shortage of food for a month. An over heaped plate has never been attractive. Also, try go at your food with the some civilisation. That said, if you keep yourself composed and maintain a cheerful but steady presence, the office party has the ability to boost your reputation and expand your network.