A lot of people may dream of getting married, settling down and having a family, but former beauty queen and single mother of one, Hamamat Montia says that is not always the best thing to do.
In a new Instagram video she posted in response to a question one of her followers laid before her, the African ambassador and melanin skin promoter revealed being divorced has made a happier person than when she was married.
In a lengthy caption, she advised ladies not to get pregnant before marriage and also listen to their parents’ advice.
She wrote ”I am happier single than I was married but it is a very tough choice. A choice I will not wish on anyone, especially when there are children involved. Getting pregnant doesn't fix problems. Having children before marriage, changes the dynamics. I can go on and on but believe me when I say your boyfriend does not love you more than your parents. They feel something, something they can't really explain and remember energy doesn't lie. We need to Listen to our parents more. You have the whole world in your hands right now don't drop it because you are blindly in love.”
Source: yen.com.gh
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u shd be, u married simply bcos the man has money, n he treated u like an object bcos he bought u... so what do u expect? next time dont allow money to dictate for u, use ur head n heart...
Marraige is good and hornorable in all. the kind of marraiges you ladies of now adays are rushing into are bound to be how it is because you put God away and want to do it your way. and the kind of men you get maaried to matter alot.
Am happy u realised this and you will forever be happy than u were, we ladies normally think with the pregnancy the uy will marry u, it will be better u give birth to that child without the marriage cos as soon as u enter u ur marital home ur life begin to turn upside down, our parents should always be our role models cos they love us bunch
Hammamat i got pregnant before i married and have been married for ten years, believe me, i know the feeling. I wish i had waited and done things the right way, THis ten years hve been nothing but empty. I dont feel happy, and have lost connection with my husband. we have four kids together and that is the only thing that keeps me going. Marriage is tough, and is not for the faint hearted. A word of advice, never rush into marraige. Marriage is not the key to happiness.
U are right my dear, in this world one need to make a mistake to learn a lesson. Especially we women we are like goat .